Comment Policy

I’m in the process of developing a comment policy to ensure that this blog promotes respectful dialogue, for myself and the other victims of spiritual abuse who read this. As you may know, as the moderator to this sight, I reserve the right to delete or moderate any comment or remove any person who doesn’t maintain a respectful attitude toward the author of this site, or toward the victims of abuse.

In addition, I’m going to be enforcing some stronger boundaries on the comment board. In order to do so, I’m organizing a Frequently Asked Questions page to appease all those who want to bash the writer with the same comments over and over and over. I’m currently drafting up answers to your most frequent questions, and organizing the hyperlinks to posts that I’ve already answered those questions.

Some of those questions include (but are not limited to):

  • If it was so bad, why did you stay?
  • Don’t you know that you’re slandering pastors?
  • Why did you choose to use names in this blog?
  • Why are you spiritually attacking godly men and women?

And some insults including:

  • You’re not acting very Christian by writing this blog;
  • You’re judging those pastors;
  • You’re the Devil;
  • You’re a Jezebel;
  • You’re bitter;
  • You’re angry;
  • You’re fill-in-the-blank with numerous other accusations.

Most of these questions, comments and accusations have been answered on this blog; however, as I’m always in the process of improving the site, an easier to read page with all of the answers/responses to these will be accessible in the next few weeks.

Thank you for your patience readers and haters.

And no matter what side you are on: Have a Happy Thanksgiving.

I Wish

I wish I had one of those mommy blogs where everyone talks about their kids all day and I gave away My Little Pony apps. But I don’t.

Instead, I have one of those blogs where the weirdo fundamentalists come out of hiding every once in awhile and act all bat shit crazy, misspelling their grievances about me and wasting my time.

I’m not gonna lie, it sometimes makes me want to quit. I have a great sense of humor and can think of a hundred ways to cuss them out, but sometimes I just don’t understand them. And who wants to spend all day cussing them out? I have a life. Remember yesterdays post about enjoying life? My life is filled with days at the beach and I like to keep it that way.

They want me to quit, though, right? They want to silence me, because I’ve left my “pastor’s covering” where I was silenced for years. So they tell me I’m narcissistic and “just like the church I’m writing about” and that I’m stupid.

But the thing is, I’m not stupid and I’m far more ethical than any church and I might be a tad narcissistic and I might even be angry or bitter or hurt but I admit all that to you. So that’s not news to anyone, and if it’s news to them and they think they’re making a huge claim that’s going to “out me” then they’re dumb.

And then there’s the “you won’t post my comment” bullshit. Hey, mother f*cker, I pay for this website, so I essentially can do whatever I want with it. But to be fair, read the comment policy because I have one and I follow it. Or check back later, because I do approve nearly all of the comments posted here (even the hateful ones). It just takes time to get through them–especially because I don’t get cell phone service on the beach.